Avoiding the Holiday Hangover

Holiday Hangover

Now before you get too far into this post…this has nothing to do with the typical alcohol-induced hangover.  So if you are hoping for a magic cure-all for that I am afraid I have bad news for you…the cure is don’t drink so much!! 

No, I am referring to that feeling you get after the holidays are over.  We spend a month (or more for some) building up to the holidays…planning and cooking and baking and shopping and wrapping and decorating and gathering together…etc.  And before long the day has come and it is Christmas Eve (or insert whatever holiday you and yours celebrate…yes, I am quite aware that everybody doesn’t celebrate Christmas, but in my house we do).  Tomorrow is the big day…Christmas Day!  Santa comes tonight!!  We have cookies and hot cocoa to put out tonight, reindeer food to sprinkle on the yard and the kids have one gift (Christmas jammies!) to open tonight from mom and dad.  My husband and I started the Minivan Express tradition last year so that will happen tonight as well!  (I will write more on that in a future post).

And then tomorrow morning arrives and the kids excitedly wake up and run into our room and bounce on the bed anxious to open their presents!  We all get up and mommy stays up in the bedroom with the kiddos (trying to make myself somewhat presentable for pictures/video)  while daddy goes down to see what surprises Santa has left for us (and to get the camera!).  Then daddy has us all come down the stairs to the Christmas morning goodies that await us!  After the flying wrapping paper and the excited squeals of the kids we all get showered and dressed and eat some breakfast before family arrives.

Family arrives and we eat, drink and be merry sharing the company of one another and stories of memories of Christmas past.  We exchange gifts and thanks and play some games and eat some more and then one by one people start to head home.  Soon everybody is gone and it is time for bed.  The kiddos get a bath and a bedtime story and then tucked into bed.  Mom and dad finish cleaning up the remains of the celebration and collapse on the couch together in exhaustion.

And then it is the day after Christmas.  The decorations are still up, but the anticipation of the approaching holiday is gone.  We know we will have to take down the decorations soon (ugh) and get them all packed away for another year (double ugh).  No more Christmas songs on the radio, no more twinkling lights and soothing tree by the fireplace.  No more Christmas specials on tv or cheesy Christmas Hallmark or Lifetime movies (those are my favorite!!).  No more Christmas baking or gift exchanges with coworkers, friends and family.  It is all just done.

That is the holiday hangover.

So to avoid that sinking feeling, here is what you do…look ahead.  Yep, that is it!  Look ahead.
Look ahead to the next thing…plan your New Year’s celebrations, gather with family and friends to celebrate the New Year and take a moment to reflect on the year behind and set goals for the year ahead.
Look ahead to Valentine’s Day and show those around you how much they mean to you.
Plan an End of Winter Celebration to say so long to the cold and snow and hello (and hurry and get here) to the warmth and new life of spring!

Find any excuse to celebrate life and surround yourself with those you love.   Decorate when you want (I am still trying to convince my husband to leave the tree up all year long and decorate it for each season/holiday!!), gather when you want, bake when you want, party when you want!  Make everyday a holiday!!  Life is short…make every second count!  One of my very favorite quotes is “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the number of moments that take your breath away.”  Create breath-taking moments!

A very Merry Christmas to you all and Happy Holidays to everybody that celebrates the many other holidays this time of year!

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Tips When Interviewing…Mind Your P’s!!

Interviewing…we have all been through it at least once in our lives in one capacity or another.

Some people are “interviewing experts” and are naturals when it comes to getting through an interview.
Others…not so much.

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I personally have been on both sides of interviewing (interviewer and interviewee) and from my experiences I have put together this list of basic tips to help you interview better!

Now I am no expert.  So as a disclaimer, any and all information and advice I give in my blog is simply my own personal opinion and comes with no guarantee.  (In other words, you can’t blame me if you don’t get hired!!)

Tip #1: Personality
– Be yourself and let your personality shine through!  One purpose of an interview is to get to know who you are and determine if the job is a good fit for you and if you are a good fit for the job.  It is very hard to determine who a candidate is if they don’t show some of their personality.  If you are sitting there describing yourself as a happy and outgoing person, yet you are not smiling, show no excitement and have no voice fluctuations…How am I supposed to believe what you are saying?!?

Tip #2: Passion
– Be passionate about the position you are interviewing for.  As an interviewer, we want you to want the job you are interviewing for.  If you don’t want it, don’t apply for it!!  If you come to the interview with an attitude and it appears that you really don’t care if you are there or not, I am not going to be compelled to hire you and deal with that attitude every day!  Now don’t go overboard…remember there is always the risk of going too far in the other direction.  It is possible to be passionate and not obsessive.  Find that balance.

Tip #3: Prepare
– Prepare yourself for the interview.  Think about what kinds of questions they may ask?  More than likely you will be asked to describe yourself or your background, your strengths, and your weaknesses.  Do not answer “I don’t know” to any of these questions!!  Have a friend or a family member interview you.  Let them spring questions on you so you get the chance to answer as you would in an interview situation.  Practice makes perfect!  But again, don’t go to the other extreme.  You do not want to sound rehearsed or robotic when answering.  You want the answers to be sincere and natural.

Tip #4: Poise
– Be poised during your interview.  In other words…have confidence in yourself.  If you come in with confidence in yourself that you can do this and would be the best person for the job, then the person interviewing you will get that same feeling from you!  Remember though…confident, not conceited…nobody likes a know-it-all.

This is a short and very basic list of tips, but if you can master them it will greatly help your interviewing skills!
The most important thing to remember is that everybody gets nervous when it comes to interviews.  It is natural to be nervous and the interviewer knows that.  But you can’t let your nerves paralyze you.  You are there to “sell” you and you are the best expert on you so that should be easy to do!
Now get out there and mind your P’s and good luck to you!

Until next time…